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Since
1995 Adoption Online has
been helping to build families through
adoption. In that time we have recieved
many heartwarming and touching letters
from families and birthparents alike.
On
this page, you will find just
a few of the many such letters we have recieved
over the years.
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Adoption
in only a few weeks!
Recieved
2/9/2008
"I'm happy to tell you that we've successfully
adopted a baby girl. It
happened in a matter of weeks. She's healthy
and beautiful."
"We're grateful to your
advertising service.
Knowing our ad was up helped
keep us positive and hopeful."
"Please take our ad down -- feel free to
add us to your group of successful
adoptive parents. Seeing that there were such people
did inspire us, and we'd be happy to think
we might help other people that
way."
"Yours
Alex"
From
contact to Adoption in under 3 months!
Recieved
7/26/2007
"Dear
Allison"
"How are you? I am doing well, we
have a beautiful baby girl, thanks
to you and your website!!!! We could not have
done this with out you. I have sent notice to
[our agency] to remove our information .. due
to their lack of help and service. Every
one of our eleven (11) Birthmothers that
contacted us came from
your site! So thank you
again for all you did."
"At this time I think we need to take our site
down for now as we have a baby and we
are still getting contacted by other Moms to
be. Don't
throw away our information as we will want to
add to our family next year sometime. We want
to complete the circle and have a Boy as well."
Thank you so much for everything and please keep in touch as we want to list with you again"
"Talk to you soon,
Scott"
Recieved
8/17/2006
"We are thankful to Adoption Online for their
professional and continuing service to birthfamilies
and adoptive families. We were blessed to adopt
after listing our online profile at Adoption
Online. Just
two months after
we signed up we received the call that changed
our lives."
"We
adopted a beautiful baby girl and made our
family unit even larger through a beautiful
completely open adoption. Thank you so much
for being apart of our miracle in becoming
a family!"
"We
would highly recommend Adoption Online to
any birthfamily or adoptive family. Adoption
Online is consistent, caring and very responsive
to all parties in the adoption triad. Thank
you so much to Allison and all of the staff
at Adoption Online."
"Warmest regards,
The Bryant Family"
Recieved
4/20/2006
"We
tried other websites, and they were either
very unprofessional or so large we got lost
in the crowd. Like Goldie Locks and the Three
Bears Adoption
Online is JUST RIGHT!"
Recieved
11/12/2005
"WOW,
who ever thought we could adopt online! This
service is a blessing to all who are dreaming
of building their family through adoption."
"The
Adoption Online staff makes you feel like
you're thier only clients. Their personalized
attention is tops!"
Recieved
8/4/2005
"We
were contacted by so many potential birthmothers
we actually had to turn some down! Thanks
to Adoption Online, our dreams of becoming
parents came true. We tell everyone in our
Adoption support group about this site! Adoption
in the 21st century will be defined by this
kind of service!"
Recieved
6/18/2005
"I
was browsing the web the other day and can't
remember if we ever contacted you to know
that our adoption was finalized last year. Today
we have the most precious 16 month old baby
boy you could imagine. "
"We are so thankful that God led
us to you and gave us our son through your
site. We have been truly blessed "
Recieved
4/10/2005
"Hi
Allison
We have our baby girl home now
and could not be happier or more delighted.
We posted on your website in Sept and the BM
contacted us in Oct. We were in touch with
her for a long time and we were lucky enough
to be present for the birth and have this special
person in our lives."
"ParentProfiles.com
would have nothing to do with a "canadian
couple" we
are so appreciative and thrilled with
your service. Thanks for providing the link
that made our dreams come true."
"You guys have been amazing -
thanks so much!"
Recieved
5/11/2004
"I
would like to start by telling you how happy
we have been with our membership to your on
line service. Four years ago this month we
adopted [our daughter]. I cannot
begin
to tell you about all of our experiences with
different birth mothers and families. Unfortunately,
not all good, but we were always smart enough
to do everything legally and above board."
"So now
we would like to end our memebership in your
great service. We never would have had all
the joy, without enduring the sorrow too. Also
the number of connections we received
was unbelievable."
"Thanks
again for providing an affordable, fast and
safe connection for birth and adoptive
families."
Clients
#287
Recieved
3/12/2004
"
We had our first contact with Amanda's birth
parents after 1 month posted on
this site. We registered with ADOPTIONONLINE
in mid-November, met the birth parents in
Mid-December, and Amanda was born
January 18!"
"In
6 months registered with 2 agencies we didn't
have any luck. There really is no predicting
when things will happen with this, but don't
get discouraged and hang in there... you never know from day to day when
the call will come that changes your life! I wish you the best of luck!
The waiting is awful, but know that it will
happen! Good luck!!!"
Recieved
9/7/2003
"Allison,
I just read your e-mail out loud to my husband
who's sitting here on the other computer playing
games. He agrees with me, that we love you.
We appreciate the support and comments you give.
We never get that from any of the other websites
were are working with. "
"Thanks
again for all your support and guidance. Keep
doing what you do. You are truly God's gift
to hopeful adoptive couples."
Recieved
7/10/2003
"...Also,
I just wanted to say that... with all the different
adoption sites I have worked with, yours really
makes us feel at home and that you have your
act together .... You have been so nice, and
the quality of your service shows by your professionalism.
I have delt with some sites that can't even
spell, their mannerism is abrupt, and their
directions are unclear (very unprofessional).
We are very impressed with AdoptionOnline. You're
doing a wonderful job..."
New
Client
Recieved
3/14/2003
"[We]
would like to thank you for the wonderful service
you provided. Because of your website we became
proud parents."
Clients
# 549
Recieved:
2/12/2003
Family Adopts 2nd child
using Adoption Online!
"I
just wanted to let you know that my husband
and I brought home our beautiful baby girl three
weeks ago. This is our second adoption (our
son just turned 3 years old)--in both
cases it was Adoption Online that helped
us connect with a birthmother."
"
I know it may seem like the wait is endless
but the baby that was meant for you will come
and this service does work well---we are living
proof. "
Clients
428
Recieved: 1/15/2003
From
online to completed adoption in a mere 4 months!
"Dear
adoptiononline.com:"
"When we signed on with our adoption facilitator/attorney
Jan Derflinger in early October, her first priority
was to get us networked on your site. "
"Through
the help of adoptiononline.com in conjunction
with Jan's wonderful work, we have just brought
home our newborn daughter,
born January 5th. From the moment we had our
birthmother letter up on adoptiononline.com
to the moment of our daughter's birth was a
mere 4 months!"
"After
preparing ourselves for a much longer wait,
both we and our social worker were blown
away by the effectiveness of your site
and will reccomend it to everyone we speak to
who are interested in adopting."
"Thank
you again for making our dreams come true! "
Client #550
11/12/02
We just found out:
Client 536 Adopted TWINS in less than 5 months!
Recieved
11/10/02
From contact to Adoption in under 4 months!
"Dear
Adoption On Line.Com:
Please remove our letter from your site. We
are pleased to tell you we have adopted a baby
girl! We found her from adoptiononline.com.
While we didn't get a tremendous amount of responses,
we did get the right call."
"Please tell others not to get discouraged.
Adoption does happen through the internet.
We will definitely advertise on this site again
if we plan to have a second child."
Regards,
[Client 526]
Recieved
8/21/02
"...we
did have some great leads through your site.
The key thing you have that is better than Adoption.com
is the ability [in the Find A Familiy Search
page] to set multiple queries simultaneously,
(e.g. I'd like christian families who like dogs
that live in CA). Adoption.com allows you only
basic queries and only one at a time. It was
much easier for birthmothers to find us on your
site!"
"
I've attached a photo of our daughter ...cause
she's so cute and because I know that after
the years of working to build a family, we know
comfortably that it was all worth the effort
and that we have the right child with us! Ahhhh.
So thanks for your good work and help in finding
our baby. We'll look forward to working with
you again on numero dos!"
Recieved
7/4/02
Found a birthmother in 5
DAYS!
"Please
remove our adoption info at the end of the period
that we just got billed for. We had HUGE
success from your site and just adopted our
newborn baby boy, today."
"When life slows down a little bit, I would
gladly write a testimonial for your service.
The response was unreal."
"Thanks,
[Clients 518]"
Here
is the testimonial they wrote.
Received
5/9/02
An
Adoption in only 3 months!
"HI
my husband and i just returned from missouri
with our adopted son, thanks to your web. site!!
It took us only 3 months of advertising!! I
highley recommend your web. site to all."
"thank
god for your web site"
[Client 503]
Received
4/29/02
"My
husband and I found your service very good.
We were on it from January through March and
had many contacts. I surprising found myself
pregnant in February, so are adoption plans
are "on hold" so to speak. But I think
your service was good and the staff professional.
"
Thanks,
[Clients 509]
Received
4/26/02
"We
will definitely use you again. We received far
more contacts with your site then other ones
we were on."
Received
3/31/02
2nd
Adoption via Adoption Online!
"We've
successfully adopted our 2nd child through adoptiononline.com.
[name deleted] was born on 3/21/02. We left
the hospital with him on 3/23, and brought him
back home on 3/26."
"We've already recommended adoptiononline.com
to many many couples and wish them all the best
of luck. If you need a reference from a happy
adoptive family, just give us a call (or email)."
Sincerely,
[Clients #414]
Received
12/21/01
"My
wife and I tried to adopt for about a year and
a half with very little success. Working with
and agency and word of mouth, we had one contact
in eighteen months. Needless to say, we we're
very discouraged."
"
Then an old friend I ran into at my high school
reunion told me about Adoptiononline. Once
we signed up, it was like turning on the tap.
We had contacts from all over. Our information
included an 800 number, so we received phone
calls in addition to e-mails. We spoke to birth
mothers from Massachusetts to California. Some
did not choose us, two backed out after the
birth, and other situations weren't what we
were looking for, but just having the contacts
provided a steady stream of possibilities and
with those possibilities, hope."
"
We now have a beautiful new born baby girl after
three years of trying.My wife and I are very
grateful for all the support from Adoptiononline
and we recommend it to anyone searching for
that special baby or child."
Sincerely,
[Clients #441]
Received
11/28/01
"Dear
Adoptiononline Folks,"
"We have successfully adopted our darling
daughter! Her birthmother found us on adoptiononline,
we then had her contact our agency. Six months
later our daughter was born and relinquishments
are signed. Thank you for your wonderful service!"
"Sincerely,
[Clients 467]
Received
11/4/01
"I
just saw the site! It looks sooo nice! We are
really happy with the way it turned out. You
guys made it very creative looking."
"
Please feel free to use me as a reference for
how excellent you guys are. I really appreciate
the hand holding of getting the paperwork and
pictures to you. Certainly worth every penny."
"Thank
you again so much"
[Client 499]
Received 6/6/01
"Dear adoption online:
WE thought you'd like to know about another
success story through your website. [our daughter]
was placed with us last week just after she
was born. WE picked her up in Colorado from
the most fabulous pair of birthparents."
"The birthmom found us on your website last
November, when she was just two months pregnant.
We have a very open adoption, and have come
to know the birthmom very well. The birthfather
was also present at the birth and gave us his
blessing. "
"Thank you for your service! "
Photo attached. [client # 351]
Received
5/6/01
Another
Double for Adoption Online!
"[we] listed with your service November 1999
as client number 335. One month later, we had
our son [name removed] in our arms. His birthmother
called us again in December 2000 to say she
had given birth to a baby girl and to fly out
to [birthmothers home state] and pick her up.
We now have two beautiful babies due, in large
part, to your service of connecting people."
"With all of the negative information being
spread about the country about "online adoptions",
[name removed] and I felt we needed to do something
positive to let people know it does work. We
were interviewed by the [local] news here in
[city removed], California and the interview
was wonderful. It aired last night, for sweeps
week, and we are very pleased with the results."
"The [name removed] family cannot thank you
enough. Please be sure to list us on your site
for two successful adoptions!"
All the best,
[clients #335]"
Identifying
information such as names and states removed
by request.
Received
4/20/01
2nd
Adoption via AdoptionOnline!
"reporting another for your site! Our son [name
removed] was born 16Apr01 (pic attached). We
matched with the birthparents 3 weeks ago via
your site.
Thank you,
[clients #316]"
Received 12/20/00
"Thank you for providing such a wonderful service.
God used it in our lives to accomplish His will
and to bless us beyond our wildest dreams!"
Received
11/29/00
A
birthmother connection made in only 1 week!
"On November [date deleted] our daughter was
born. She makes all that we have been through
with four failed adoptions in three years worth
all the pain and heartache because she is the
baby that God had waiting for us to adopt. We
see now why the other four didn't work out and
our wait for a legitimate, drug and alcohol
free, birth mom took so long."
"She is all the things that dreams are made
of !!! So hang in there, dreams do come true
and it may take a lot of pain, heartache, and
time but the Glory of finally getting that baby
home is worth dieing for..."
"God bless,
[client 425]"
Received 10/13/00
"I wanted to thank you for the service. As
you know we have adopted a beautiful baby girl.
We are so happy and appreciate all of your help!!!!!
This is a great site."
Received 8/3/00
"We flew to meet her [the birthmom] and her
family last week. We hit it off over the phone
immediately and we are very positive about the
whole thing."
"...our bm [birthmother] was through adoptiononline.
So keep the faith. It can happen. We have been
contacted by 5 bm's in less than 2 months. The
perfect match will happen with time."
Received 6/18/00
"Dear AdoptionOnline.com,
We were Client-347 and we wanted to let you
know that we adopted a baby boy born June 4th.
We had been contacted with the birthmom just
four days after we posted (just after Christmas),
but had to wait six months until his arrival."
" It's great being new parents and your site
had a huge hand in connecting us to a birthmom.
We just wanted to say thank you. "
Sincerely,
[Client-347]
Received 6/2/00
"So glad you wrote. Your timing is perfect.
The adoption we thought would happen did not.
In fact, we spent upwards of $12,000 on agency
fees, attorneys fees, and living expenses for
the birthmother.... She visited us. [my husband]
visited her a couple of times on business trips...
"
"We spoke on the phone every other day for
four months. She changed her mind when the baby
was born. Then she changed her mind again, two
weeks later, and wanted us to have the baby.
Then she changed her mind again, deciding to
keep him, and we've not heard from her since.
It was a nightmare. Nobody - not the attorneys
or counselors or any of us - saw this coming."
"Miraculously, the week after [the birthmother]
changed her mind for the last time, we got a
call from another birthmother who had pulled
our letter off your service just days before
it stopped being listed there. [She] held on
to the letter for two months until she was ready
to call."
"Her friends told her to forget about us because
we weren't listed on AdoptionOnline.com any more. [The Birthmother]
was convinced we were the family she wanted.
To make a longer story shorter -- we stirred
up our courage, knowing we could not afford
an expensive adoption, and decided to at least
meet [her], who lives [a few hundred] miles
away. It was a match made in heaven. "
"Our daughter... was born in May 2000. She
is a beautiful, healthy girl. Adoption Online
Connection made this adoption possible. It happened
in a very different way than we expected, but
we could not be happier. Please include us as
a "success."
"Thanks for asking".
Sincerely, [Client 326]"
Identifying
information such as names and states removed
by request.
Received 5/4/00
"We are in heaven - a beautiful girl... We
were not picky, knowing it was our second we
felt we had not much luck and a long wait -
WRONG!!"
"Thanks for everything - I've told MANY people
about your service!! God Bless"
Received 4/17/00
"Today we finalized the adoption of our son
Bryan Ross. We are very grateful to AdoptionOnline.com, as
your Internet service put us in contact with
Bryan's birth mother only 60 days after
our site was activated and approximately 3 months
prior to his birth. The entire adoption process
was very positive, and we feel very fortunate
to have connected with a wonderful birth mother
and ultimately, our beautiful bouncing baby
boy. "
"It should be mentioned that we also recommended
your service to another couple after we had
several viable opportunities arise from our
website, and they are now proud parents of a
beautiful baby girl from Colorado."
"Thank you AdoptionOnline.com! Words cannot describe the joy
adoptive parents feel when their dreams come
true. We are grateful for the greatest gift
of all - a gift of life - a gift of love. God
bless! "
Received 1/03/00
"AdoptionOnline.com really works!!! We now have a 3 month
old baby girl living with us. A dream come true!!!
To everyone that is waiting for phone calls
or emails--be patient--they will come when you
least expect it!!! Thank you AdoptionOnline.com, and we also
will thank someone from our support group for
suggesting that we go with AdoptionOnline.com. And we also
had the most wonderful birthmother!!!!
DON'T LOSE HOPE!!!
Thank you again, and we'll stay in touch!!!
"
Received
10/97
An
Adoption Online.com (AdoptionOnline.com) Double success!
"Hi,"
"My name is [name witheld],
and my husband and I are adoptive parents of
two beautiful children which was made possible
through the Internet, and specifically Adoption
Online. My husband and I registered with your
site in early 1997, had identified two perfect
birth mothers to work with in less than three
months, and became parents for the first
time less than three months later, and again
six weeks after that. "
"Although there are many negative stories regarding
adoption via the Internet, ours is a wonderful
success story. If you would like more details
about our adoptions for your records or to communicate
with other adoptive hopefuls, please don't hesitate
to contact me. ..."
"I remember speaking with you in the beginning
of our search, and I appreciated your encouragement
and compassion in dealing with me over the telephone
and sharing your own adoption success story
with me. It certainly inspired us, and I hope
our story will do the same for others. Thank
you for everything! "
"Respectfully, [name witheld]"
Received 8/99
"Hi--
Well, you can increase your adoption count by
one. Our son was born [in August] to a birthmother
who found us through your site. "
"We'd been "in the book" with a private adoption
agency for well over a year with no success,
so your site was a godsend for us. Thanks for
providing a terrific service at a reasonable
price. "
"If you ever want to create a photo-listing
of babies adopted through your site, please
let me know--I'd be more than happy to provide
a picture. In fact, I'll send one now! Best
wishes for continuing success"
Received 9/03/99
"As I just posted on the client chat, we have
found our new son--or he found us, whichever
is correct."
" You can take our letter off your site. Thanks
for having such a great site and it keeps getting
better as you add features. The client chat
is a great one. "
"When we told people we had put our letter
on the internet, many were skeptical. I do think
there's a segment of the birthmothers out there
that will think of the internet as a way to
connect with a family. Ours was 23, working
in a professional level position, with some
college education. Perhaps one of several typical
profiles. "
"I was pleased that as lesbians that we didn't
get harrassed. I did worry some about that,
but it never happened, which may be reassuring
to other prospective clients. "
"Thanks again and good luck in the future.
"
Received 7/17/99
"Just wanted to let you know that you can add
another Successful Adoption to your list! Our
son arrived in this world in May. The adoption
went smoothly (despite everything the lawyers
do to make your life miserable!). The birthmother
found us through our Web Site. "
"We truly appreciate your link to the CyberWorld.
If and when we decide to try this again, we
would certainly avoid the cost and hassle of
newspapers and stick with you! "
Received 7/22/99
"We have a wonderful success story from adoptiononline!"
"After five months of using your service -
and many inquires from birthmoms during that
time - we got a call from an attorney facilitator
... who said she had the perfect birthcouple
and that they had gone through all her profiles
and still hadn't found the right match. So,
our facilitator got on the internet and found
us! "
"We were the perfect match and our beautiful
healthy daughter was born [in July]. We are
forever grateful for your service and highly
recommend it to anyone thinking of expanding
their adoption search via the web. "
Happy Parents in Washington, D.C.
"Hi!
Your service has been tremendous. We have had
so many contacts via our website with adoptiononline.
On Saturday we fly ... to meet an incredible
birthcouple -- an attorney working with them
there could not find a couple in her pool to
please them and started looking at adoptiononline
and found us!! "
"We expect and hope to be coming home with
a little girl by the end of July! "
"Thanks again. We have had many contacts --
too numerous to list -- with this site; at some
point I can tally them up for you. It has been
the best money we have spent in our adoption
search. "
"Thank you again. "
Received 10/20/98
"Hello !
We joined AdoptionOnline.com back in mid-February (1998). Anyway
I sent you a note telling you we matched
up after 6 weeks, and that the baby was
due in July 98. I am sorry it has taken so long
to update you, but our dream "really" did come
true. "
"We matched up after 6 weeks, then our birth
mother was due to give birth 4 months later.
I was able to be in the delivery room with her
(my husband wasn't able to fly out in time).
Being in there and seeing our son being born
was the second best gift she could give us.
What an incredible sight!! A very emotional
ordeal. What a wonderful woman she is and we
will forever be thankful that she picked us
from AdoptionOnline.com. "
"Three months has now passed since [our son]
has been born. We are still the happiest parents
ever !!! We stay in contact with his birth mother
through letters and pictures. It makes us feel
good to have this special relationship with
her, and it will be special for our son later
in life when he will be able to learn so much
about his birth mother from the letters, pictures,
and stories we have from her. "
"Again......thank you Adoptiononline.....if
it wasn't for YOU then she would not have found
US ! "
"We plan to adopt another baby next year, and
we will certainly use you again.
Our Love and Thanks, "
"P.S. We go once a month to an adoption support
group here in California. There is a big turn
over of people and we always tell them about
how we used "Adoptiononline" to match up with
our birth mother. "
Received 9/24/98
"I wanted to inform you that we had been advertising
in the newspapers for 14 months then on May
26th we were posted on adoptiononline.com. THREE
days later we had our first contact through
e-mail from the birthmother that ended up choosing
us. "
"Within the first 2 weeks of being posted,
we were communicating to a total of three birthmothers!
Our baby daughter was born on August 9th (JUST
OVER 2 MONTHS OF ADVERTISING THROUGH YOUR SITE).
"
"THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR OFFERING US AND TO MANY
OTHER ADOPTIVE FAMILIES THIS FABULOUS OPPORTUNITY.
We look forward to posting our Dear Birthmother
with you again in the future when we plan to
adopt a second child. THANK YOU!!!!! "
"We can't even begin to tell you how ecstatic
we are about matching up with a birth mother
through your services. "
"We have tried other methods of advertising
for about 10 months. After just 6 weeks
of signing up online with AdoptionOnline.com we received a
phone call from a wonderfully sweet and kind
birth mother. We talk with her often and feel
that it is a match meant to be. "
Received 4/03/98
"Crank-up that successful adoptions score a
notch! We are delighted to announce the arrival
of our beautiful son. Our birthmother located
us through our internet listing with you and
we have had a very positive experience of the
adoption process. We only began our search mid-August
so this has happened fast! Many thanks to all
of you and we hope our story will be an inspiration
to your currently waiting families."
Received 10/28/97
"Thank you so much for providing your valuable
service! We signed up with you on June 26th
and made a connection with a wonderful birthmother
within two weeks. After flying to visit
her in her city, we agreed to a mutually acceptable
adoption plan. "
"Our beautiful infant daughter, was just one
month old yesterday! We were there for the birth
and consequently were able to experience her
first moments of life."
" Thank you for your help. "
"We highly recommend your service to others
whenever we have the opportunity to do so. Incidently,
we received other serious "contacts" after the
initial one! "
Received 8/25/97
"Hello! I apologize for taking so long to share
our wonderful news with you. Life is busy with
our new son (he is sitting in my lap as I am
typing this!) "
"Please pass this letter on to your subscribers
as testimony that your service works. My husband
and I put our letter to a birthmom on line the
first week of January, 1997. "[In mid February]"...
we recevied a call from our birthmom, letting
us know that she wanted to place her son, due
June with us. We met with her mom, dad and her
the first weekend in March."
"The meeting went well, and our birthmom confirmed
her desire to place her son with us. Over the
next months, we communicated daily via E-Mail,
and weekly by phone. [In June] we drove ...
to await the birth of our son. I helped coach
our birthmom through 21 hours of labor, and
our boy was born. I was the first person to
hold him (and have barely let him go, since!)
Thanks to the wonderful, loving personality
of our birthmom and her family, his birth was
a very positive emotional experience for all
of us."
" I have talked with our birthmom a few times
since, our son, was born. She goes back to college
tomorrow, and is anxious to do well. In our
last conversation, she told me that when people
ask her if she is happy with her decision, she
responds she would do it exactly the
same way, had she to do it over again. We ALL
feel very fortunate."
" I am very thankful to you and your service
for allowing my husband and I to have the family
we have wanted for many years. Our friends and
family are amazed that [our son] joined our
family 5 months after our letter first went
on line. Good luck to others like us. "
"It can happen! "
"In February of this year, we place our profile
with AdoptionOnline.com in search of a viable opportunity to
adopt a newborn child. Your service provided
the best and most impressive results. "
"[In July], we were in the delivery room for
the birth of our first child !!! "
"Next month, we are expecting the birth of
our second child (the ultrasound shows it's
a girl!!!). We have been caring for the birthmother
since early May and things have been going great.
"
" Both of these adoption connections were facilitated
through AdoptionOnline.com. The first birthmother had a friend
that wrote to us after seeing our profile on
AdoptionOnline.com. We wrote back to him and in a short period
of time we were talking directly to the birthmother.
"
"The second birthmother found us on your service
and contacted us through her mother. Soon after,
we arranged a personal meeting. From that day
on we have been going through the pregnancy
together (doctor's visits, ultrasounds, etc.)
and expect another successful adoption to be
completed soon!!! "
"When we began the adoption process in January
of this year, we felt we would be extremely
blessed if we had a child by Christmas. Well,
it's the middle of summer and it looks like
before summer ends, we'll have the perfect family.
"
"We used many different methods to market ourselves,
but none produced the quality of results that
we realized on AdoptionOnline.com. "
" Thank you for providing this service. We
would be happy to share more details about our
success to other couples that are looking for
input and maybe a little hope. "
Received 6/25/97
"...you posted our letter on May 7th. Five
days later on May 12th, we received a call
from a birthmother who was already several days
overdue. [the baby's] birth family was going
to go through the phone book and call infertility
clinics and decided to try the Internet where
they found us instead. ... We could not be happier
and we owe it to AdoptionOnline.com for providing this excellent
resource."
"Just thought I'd let you know that we are
flying tomorrow to meet our birthmom. Her father
found our AdoptionOnline page on the Internet,
and the birthmom chose us as the future parents
of her baby boy. .....We couldn't be happier
with her, her family, and her decision, and
we look forward to providing a good home for
her baby."
" Anyone who is trying to adopt knows that
it is hard to be patient while waiting for "the
call." I have to admit that I was beginning
to think that using the Internet wasn't a good
idea. But what seemed like an eternity was actually
just 6 weeks - If all goes as planned,
we will be parents less than 6 months from the
time we made our decision to adopt. "
"We found a Birthmother, or rather a Birthmother
found us, thanks to AdoptionOnline.com! 10 days after
you put our page online, [she] called us...
We talked on the phone a lot over a period of
one month, and just met her this week. We feel
so lucky... and happy! We want to thank you
and wish a very merry Christmas to everybody
at AdoptionOnline.com."
"Everybody at IAC (Independent Adoption Center,
the agency we are working with to handle our
adoption) was impressed with the response we
got with your services."
Received 12/02/96
"Our birthmother, and the twins, found us on
Adoption Online Connection back in July, just
a week or two after our birthmother letter went
on-line. The whole process of locating and being
matched with a birthmother took about 6 weeks,
much less than we had anticipated."
"So, we have a perfect ready-made family with
a boy and a girl and a wonderful birthmom. What
a wonderful adoption story for our children."
"Thanks for everything and let us know how
if there is anything we can do to help you guys."
Received 11/26/96, Adoption #1!
"I am sitting next to my sleeping nine day
old son, a direct result of a connection made
through AdoptionOnline.com. We were able to be at his birth,
and we brought him home on day two of life.
Our homestudy was completed only last January,
but the only real "action" we got for serious
prospects was from AdoptionOnline.com. We can't thank you enough
for creating this service. "
"No one can believe we "found a baby on the
Internet". Please continue to keep your service
reasonably priced to continue to help those
of us who aren't "made of money" to be able
to find infants without going totally broke.
"
"I recommend AdoptionOnline.com every chance I get, and will
continue to do so. "
" You also made a birthmom very happy and content
in the decision she has made. Her Dad, a computer
buff, found our profile on AdoptionOnline.com, right in their
living room, and things just progressed from
there."
" It still seems so unbelievable. So, chalk
up another successful match through your service,
"
"Dear AdoptionOnline.com:
You're going to like this. "
"We've been contacted by birthparents who found
us through AdoptionOnline.com. They contacted us after we were
listed for only a couple of days. We
never imagined this would happen so fast. We're
all quite thrilled. "
" Thanks very much. What a great service you
provide!"
"I was concerned at first about investing in
this service. However, AdoptionOnline.com is very user friendly
and the response we've received has been surprising.
"
"In the last couple of months, we've had more
contacts on adoption than in the previous two
years that we have been working with an agency."
Received 9/10/96
"To you and AdoptionOnline.com we have to say THANK YOU...THANK
YOU...THANK YOU!!! We sat in an agency's "book"
for over two years with virtually no contact
and since we started with AdoptionOnline.com in late April
it has at times felt like it's "raining babies".
"
"Best of all, the right connection finally
happened. Got to run now (I've got a crib to
re-paint), but thanks again for helping us make
this match!!"
Received 3/16/96
"We were amazed how quickly this adoption happened,
especially since we've been waiting almost 3
years to adopt a child. It was like a miracle,
this baby coming to us in this way."
Long testimonial from
Clients
#518:
Found a birthmother in 5
DAYS!
"My
wife and I decided to attempt an independent
adoption back in September of 2001. We met with
an adoption attorney and then started our networking
efforts. Our adoption attorney gave us the following
advice: "independent adoptions take some
luck, but my hardest-working clients seem to
be the luckiest." We put the word out through
every friend, relative, church, doctor, and
co-worker that we could think of. We e-mailed
everyone we knew and sent letters to everyone
that we had an address for. We got real good
at working our adoption quest into every conversation
we had, even when it seemed a bit of a stretch."
"We had a couple "near misses"
in December. One was through a friend of ours
at church and the other was a "friend of
a friend" at a local high school. Both
girls heard about us a little too late and had
already committed to another family by the time
they heard we were adopting. It was frustrating,
but it gave us hope that something would eventually
happen for us. In late January, we read about
the "adoptiononline.com" website in
a magazine. We asked our lawyer about it, but
he had never had any of his clients put their
info on a website so he didnt have any
input one way or the other. After seeing that
it was very affordable and reading positive
reviews about it, we decided to proceed. We
picked our favorite four pictures, chose our
10 "search keywords," and e-mailed
our "dear birthmother" letter to info@adoptiononline.com.
Within a few days, they had all our info and
we were "up and running" as client
#518 on February 13, 2002."
"On February 18, 2002, we received an inquiry
from a birthmother in North Dakota who was 5
½ months pregnant and thought we looked
like a couple that might have the "right
stuff" to raise her child. We were so excited
that we were literally running around the house
with joy. The joy slowly faded as she did not
respond to our replies back to her for over
three weeks. Then on March 11, she contacted
us again. We continued to e-mail back and forth
every day and then she finally asked us to call
one evening. After a few telephone conversations,
she chose us and we started forming a relationship
with her."
"On the weekend of March 29, 2002, we flew
to North Dakota and met her. We both fell in
love with her and her two kids. It was sad when
we had to come back home at the end of the weekend,
but we felt great about the bonds we were forming.
Daily e-mails and weekly phone calls continued
right up until the day of delivery and my wife
assisted in the delivery (and cut the umbilical
cord) at the hospital on July 1, 2002."
"Needless to say, our little boy is perfect
and we continue to have a wonderful relationship
with his natural mother. Our visitation agreement
states that we will send five pictures and three
letters per year to her, but we still e-mail
weekly and she knows that she would be welcome
to visit him every year if she desired. If she
doesnt make it out here, we will definitely
take him back to North Dakota to meet her when
he is old enough to handle a trip that long."
"In
addition to this wonderful birthmother, we were
contacted via e-mail for 6 other legitimate
situations (and about 3 that smelled a lot like
scams). My wife was called on her cell phone
(the number was listed on our website) five
times by birthmothers. We were actually chosen
again by a birthmother who lives only 20 minutes
from u) and we ended up referring her to a good
friend of ours who was trying to adopt as well.
In fact, my wife ended up being the witness
for the adoptive parents and the birthmother
when they signed the adoption papers this week.
That birth should happen in the next two weeks
so our little boy will have his first friend!"
"Is
our experience typical for adoptiononline.com
clients? I have no idea. Do I think that adoptiononline.com
is "the answer" for all couples who
are trying to adopt? Probably not, but based
on our experience, it has to be part of any
couples networking efforts. It accounted
for about 95% of our leads in our 9 month search.
We will always be grateful to the wonderful
people at adoptiononline.com who have made our
dreams come true. Our family is complete."
"Sincerely,
Clients
#518"
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"My name is Alena Kleczka and I was one of
the many people who accessed your page looking
for adoptive parents. I didn't find out I was
pregnant until I was almost 5 months. After
much deliberating and discussing with my fiance...we
decided adoption was the best way to go. I was
only 19 and wanted to finish school and we both
work. "
"At first I thought I was being selfish because
I wanted to be able to have a future where I
could live out my dreams and aspirations. Then
I realized that I was also being selfish for
the baby growing inside me. I wanted her to
have the things I could not give her and the
things that I didn't have as a child which were
sometimes necessities. anyway, we came to adoptiononline
and found a couple that was too good to be true.
"
"Not only did I meet wonderful parents for
my unborn child, but I made two of the best
freinds I have ever had. Noni and Larry were
the Canadian couple whose profile was up only
three days. I am happy to say that little Sabine
is doing great in her new home and both sets
of parents are realizing dreams they thought
they would never achieve. "
" I felt it was important to let everyone going
through this process, be it birthmothers who
are scared and don't know what to do, or couples
who want nothing more than to have a child...It
can be this good. "
"Adoption was a beautiful choice that I am
so happy I made. Not only has it answered the
prayers of two amazing people whom I love, but
it has made my whole life more fulfilling. I
would've liked to have been able to keep Sabine,
but I know that she is getting just as much
love as I could have given her. "
"There is a documentary in the making about
our incredible story. there should also be a
web page up soon with more information. Until
then, if anyone would like to know more about
our story, have questions, or just need some
reassurance.....you can e-mail me or my fiancé.
His address is patrick@spy.net "
"Good Luck to you all..."
Alena Kleczka
"I just wanted to say thank you for the online
connection...I liked how you have it broke down
into different areas for the birthmothers to
choose from...I am currently in the progress
of narrowing my choices to the couple I want
to raise the baby. I loved this service because
I was able to make a decision without pressure
or persuasion. This is a great service to adoptive
parents and birthparents alike...Thank You!
"
"..your company has formed a well organized
set of pages with some incredible letters. The
letters that I skimmed over sounded so sincere
and just what someone like myself wanted to
see. Why I am writing, specifically, is to tell
you thanks for what you are and have done for
families.. .I encourage you to continue to get
more & more folks entered and hopefully
more women, in my position, can see that as
a great chance to get in contact w/ "new" parents.
I finally stopped crying, by the time I finished
writing this."
"Well I went searching the web again and there
was a couples profile up on the adoptiononline
page that was perfect. It was like reading about
myself and my fiancé. I immediately contacted
this couple. so far we have only been speaking
for a week but I feel like I have known them
for years. Everything is going beautifully for
everyone involved. "
" i just wanted to let all the adoptive parents
out there who are waiting know that there is
a child out there for you. It may take years
or in my couples case their profile had been
up ONE day. just be upfront and honest because
someone out there is looking for someone exactly
like you. good luck to you all!"
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